Does she use a smartphone (Apple or Android)? If so, look at a Pioneer AVH-4200NEX. Assuming she has an Apple, then she'll get steering wheel controls, bluetooth calling, bluetooth music, SIRI, Carplay (Apple Maps), text messaging (via SIRI voice), HD radio, Sirius, and more if she wants it, etc. If she has an android she will get Android Auto. I prefer Carplay, my daughter prefers Auto. We use both in the Escape. My 13 year old hops in and starts bluetooth Christmas music first thing.
I used Crutchfield and they sold me the wiring kit, etc for the steering wheel controls. If you want gages, tire pressures (I assume the XLT has that available, engine codes), etc then you can get the Idatalink also. I believe they also resell a tan bezel. You can chat with a specialist to get answers for your Escape.
Pioneer has a $100 rebate on the 4200 now (if purchased thru Crutchfield). I also recieved a refund on an internet price guarantee from my credit card and double the manufacturers warranty.
Look at my recent post for my 2012 Escape upgrade.